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Dominant Desire Finder

This assessment is designed to help you understand your dominant desires of the heart based on Lesson 6 of the Glorious Hope Recovery Program. It asks you a series of questions about your values, needs, and motivations. Please answer each question honestly and to the best of your ability.

Instructions

  • Please read each question carefully before answering.
  • Answer each question/statement on a scale of 0 to 6.
    ScoreEmotional Scales
    0Never feel this way: I never experience the emotion or feeling described in this statement.
    1Rarely feel this way: I very rarely experience the emotion or feeling, maybe in unusual circumstances.
    2Occasionally feel this way: I experience the emotion or feeling sporadically, usually in specific situations.
    3Sometimes feel this way: I experience the emotion or feeling periodically, but not consistently.
    4Often feel this way: I experience the emotion or feeling frequently, impacting my overall mood or behavior.
    5Very often feel this way: I experience the emotion or feeling regularly, significantly influencing my perspective and actions.
    6Always feel this way: I constantly experience the emotion or feeling, deeply ingrained in my overall state of being.
  • There are no right or wrong answers. The most important thing is to be honest and authentic.

This assessment is just a starting point. It can be helpful to revisit it from time to time to see how your desires of the heart may change over time.

I feel I need to seek out approval from others.


I believe that I am a valuable and worthwhile person, regardless of my accomplishments or failures.


I feel a strong sense of compassion for others.


I believe that it is important to challenge the status quo and fight for a more just society.


It is important for me to feel secure in my relationships.


I worry about being abandoned or rejected in my relationship.


I am proud of who I am and the person I am becoming.


I am willing to sacrifice my own personal goals and happiness in order to achieve justice for others.


I feel bad about myself when I am not approved of by others.


I seek out comfortable experiences and surrounding even when I don't need to?


I feel good about myself when I am recognized and praised by others.


I want to be able to make my own choices and live my life on my own terms.


Approval is important to me.


I feel good about myself when I am approved of by others.


I have a strong sense of my own identity and purpose in life.


I feel like I have something unique and valuable to offer the world.


I want to be known for my unique talents and abilities.


I feel a strong sense of empathy for others even those who are different from me.


I want to make a difference in the world and leave a legacy behind.


I feel a sense of satisfaction when I am able to help others or make a positive impact on the world.


I get stressed and anxious when things are unpredictable and uncontrollable.


I am always looking for new challenges and opportunities to learn.


I am willing to put in the hard work and effort necessary to succeed?


I feel more comfortable when I am in control of my environment and my life?


I want to be able to live a life that is authentic to me and my values.


I find myself motivated to love others, even if it means sacrificing my own time or resources.


I feel lonely and isolated when I don't feel connected to others.


I am passionate about learning about the world around me.


I believe that it is important to hold people accountable for their actions, even if it means confronting them.


It is important for me to be a good person.


I feel a sense of peace and contentment within myself.


I feel loved and accepted by others, for who I am, not for what I do.


I value my independence and autonomy.


It is important for me to feel accepted and valued by the people I care about.


I feel like my life has meaning when I feel connected to others and known for who I am.


I need to be constantly reassured of love and commitment.


I feel a sense of peace and contentment when I am comfortable place.


I want to make a difference in the world and leave a lasting legacy.


I feel a strong desire to make the world a better place.


I need to feel free from anxiety, pain, and fear.


It is important to me to love others unconditionally, without expecting anything in return.


I am stimulated and inspired by new ideas and challenges.


I am curious about everything and love to learn new things.


I want to be remembered for my contributions to society.


I believe that everyone deserves to be treated fairly and with respect, regardless of their social status or power.


I have a strong drive to overcome challenges and achieve my dreams.


I can be myself around the people I care about.


I need to have a sense of inner peace and well-being even when things are difficult.


I find myself engaging in activities or behaviors that help me to feel more peaceful and relaxed.


I am bothered when I feel like I don’t belong.


I feel a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment when I achieve my goals?


It is important for me to be recognized and appreciated by others.


I will sacrifice my own time, energy, or resources to help others.


I want to be free from external constraints and limitations.


I want to be respected by others and recognized for my accomplishments.


I have a good understanding of what causes my anxiety, pain, and fear.


I am content with my life, even when things are not going perfectly.


I am grateful for the good things in my life, even when things are difficult.


I have a strong sense of hope and optimism for the future.


When someone wrongs me, I feel a strong desire to confront them and seek justice.


I feel safe and comfortable expressing my needs and vulnerabilities to important loved ones.


I feel a sense of joy and satisfaction when I am able to love others.


I find joy in the simple things in life, such as spending time with loved ones, enjoying nature, or helping others.


It is important to me that others know and understand me for who I am.


I am willing to change myself to get approval from others.


It is important to me to have close, caring, and intimate relationships with others.


I feel confident in my ability to achieve your goals.


I want to feel seen and acknowledged by the people in my life.


I feel bad about myself when you are not recognized or appreciated by others?


I am willing to do things that I don't want to do in order to get recognition from others.


I find it difficult to trust anyone in a relationship.


I need to feel I belong to a family, peer group, church group, or community.


I want to be self-reliant and able to take care of myself.


It is important for me to achieve my goals and succeed in life.


I am constantly learning new things, even if they are not directly related to my work or personal life.


I have defined coping mechanisms for dealing with anxiety, pain, and fear.


I feel at ease and relaxed when I am in my comfort zone.


I feel compelled to love others even when it is difficult.


I want to make a positive impact on the lives of others.


I feel a strong need to seek out approval from others.